Cycling at Pasir Ris Park 29/8/2010

We went cycling at Pasir Ris Park on Sunday.
It was a hot and sunny Sunday... After few hours sleep with him, I suggested we should go out for some exercise instead of spending time to think of what to eat or what to do.
After changing into my exercise gear, I felt myself more energetic.. It took a long walk under the sun to the park.
The rental of the bicycle is cheap. For single sitter only $6/HR and $8/HR for 2 sitters. It came with rent an hour for 2nd hour free!! Wasn't it a good deal? We took the 2 sitters bike because it was ages ago when I rid bicycle last time.
There are some pictures to share here:

This is where we are staying now..

Clothes hung on the bamboo... Quite obvious is Singapore, rite?

I like the BLUE, sky blue!!!

The running and cycling path.

This picture taken by him. He was proud of himself.. :S


Our 2 sitters bike...

Us...

Can you see me from his sunglasses? He doesn't like to capture me because he thinks that this camera is bought for me to learn a new skill instead of using it as a "Idiot Used Camera".
After the last picture, my sunglasses dropped on the floor and broke into 2.. I was so sad and felt like crying over it. This sunglasses was from him and I had been using it for almost 4 years. So sad..=(

HE

After he moved to Sin, many things changed:
1. He threw away all my expired food stuffs
2. He enforced a proper eating plan to me
3. He entertained me by buying Blu Ray movie
4. He occupied my room, bed..everywhere in my "spacious" room
5. He bought ice-cream as our dessert (Rum&Raisin and Macadamia Nut Brittle - Both from Haagen Daz)
6. He hugged me and kissed me every nite before ZZzzzZZZ
7. He holds my hand whenever we go (I feel the distance from my place to Tampines Mall is no longer far)
8. He made me feel like a lady now (At least I have someone to rely to and he is just by my side)
9. He "tortured" me using sarcastic word but in fact he is helping me (I am now a housewife, I cleaned and tidied up our room, did laundry and now thinking of learn cooking. LOL)
10. He occupied my TIME, my HEART and my LIFE

A Relaxing Saturday

This was the 1st Saturday that we spent together after we stay together in Singapore.. I decided to plan for something new but ended with a tiring one.
I wanted to try Wild Honey Breakfast long time ago and was waited patiently to try this with him. However, it was a long queue and the lady told us that it took at least 30-45 min to our turn. I left my contact number and shopped around to look for some snacks.
We passed by a restaurant 'Jones the Grocer' and after browsing through their menu, we could find something we like from there. We waited to be seated and ordered our food within few minutes because we were starved. The restaurant was designed like a grocery shop (but ATAS one la) and things are displayed neatly on the rack.
The food we ordered is quite nice but not warm. However, we still enjoyed the session even though darling was a bit frustrated over his part time job at that point of time..







We proceed to Funan IT Mall for our new lappy.. After few hours walk, we decided to buy an ACER laptop. However, it became HIS though we planned to buy a lighter one for myself initially. As long as he is happy, I am okay with it. =)
Actually we had tried few restaurants last week but I didn't bring my camera along and no pictures were captured. However, I think we are going back again because the food are nice. I gonna show you the pictures next time.
p/s: We are going to cut down the number of visits to restaurant because I think if we continue doing this, we are not going to save.. hehe...

A Different Sweet Feeling

This is the 1st time I am looking forward to a nice dinner after a tiring flight.
Yesterday, when I came out to the arrival hall; I kept looking around hopefully he would be there waiting for me. Though I was a bit upset but I was the one who asked him not to come because Fen and Daniel are giving me a ride back.
However, I still feel sweet because the first SMS I got when I turned on my mobile is from HIM. He told me that he was on the way back and asked me to reply him when I touched down. The second SMS from him is to tell me that he reached home and asked whether need him to come down to carry my stuff.
Maybe this meant nothing for others.. But, at least I feel warm because "someone" is waiting for me and helping me to carry my Cargo bag. "Someone" is waiting for me to have dinner together. "Someone" is looking forward to my return from a flight.

London with Xue Fen ♥

Even though we didn't go sight seeing; we didn't go for any nice food.. However, we enjoyed it.
We had buffet breakfast in hotel restaurant with Benjamin, my ex-housemate. We talked and laughed non stop; good to have nice people together when you are outstation. =)
After the breakfast, we went to Oxford for shopping. Both of us shared a lot; personal view on love, sex, career, financial... everything under the sun. We are quite similar in thinking and many other ways.
The next day morning, Fen came to my room for her "tao sar pia". We had another round of girls talk again. This is more exciting because I helped to think on her birthday gift to her beloved Daniel. Yea, her hubby to be also call "Daniel".
Can't wait to meet her again on our "Mission Impossible".. haha..

Sweet Hubby

Date: 11Aug10
Time: 1900
Venue: In a cab on the way back to Tampines Home

"Lu chai, the time now is 7pm and today is 11Aug2010. We must remember today because it will be the day we start our new life. We are finally together and I love you."
Isn't it sweet till you heart will melt with it? Haha..
Yea, finally we are together, no longer apart from each other and meet every month for once or twice.
The next day, we got a movable wardrobe and new curtain from Ikea and 32" LCD TV for our room. We cleaned up the mess together and tried to make our room as comfort as possible. Though the furniture are old but we still have to keep it to avoid extra money spend.
From the first day he moved in, I had a different feeling & thinking on how my hubby looks:
1. He can be caring. He insisted to buy the new curtain to block the sun light and noise for me.
2. He is observant because he noticed the stains around my tumbler and cleaned up for me. Though he was nagging that I do not know how to take care of myself but I feel warm in my heart.
3. On the day I prepared myself for a night flight, Darling packed the "tao sar pia" nicely in a container for me to bring over to London. How sweet of him, right?
4. He takes initiative to plan a healthier lifestyle for me. Eat proper and exercise regularly.
5. He has initiated to help me in improving my English
Do you know how happy I feel now? I am the fortunate one because I have everything I want now. I shouldn't be greedy over anything else but to share what I have to my love one and those less fortunate one.

He is COMING!!!

Gosh.. Time flies and darling is coming to Singapore tomorrow.
I had started my "housewife" life by washing his shirts and cleaning up our room. However, besides that I enjoyed my "tai tai" life by meeting my friends. All my friends are happy for me.
I think I gonna make my life more meaningful when he is here.. Just make use every second when he is working.

Girls Talk

These few days, I was busy with some "dates". Finally met 2 of my "long lost" friends.
1. Ms Carmen Lee - Bride to be. We shared a lot of things about the wedding preparation, after wedding life, etc.. She is mature in thinking and she advised me to work hard for my promotion though I gonna quit after 3 years. But... just don't fee like working here is what I want but perhaps it might add some colors in my resume.
2. Ms Jamie Chan - Eventhough we are working in the same company but we had not met each other for almost a year! WHY??? Because we are busy going back to JB when we have off. Very enjoyable session with her and she also found that I am soft heartened from what I said and reacted.
I love "Girls Talk" especially with the close one that you do not need to hide everything from them and just be yourself.

Meeting Up with My Sisters

I was back last friday to meet Tate and Janelle. It was a tiring but enjoyable section. I was having bad headache due to lack of sleep. However, after meeting them, the headache has disappeared.
Lastnite, I took 2 days annual leaves and came back again. My mum went to KL for some praying function and my dad will be alone at home. Being soft heartened, I decided to come back but I was always at a loss when finalizing a decision. I had 4 more days annual leaves for my ROM, but I really feel bad to leave my dad alone at home. I couldn't get anyone to do my flight and I can't compromise myself if I take a false MC. The only solution that I can think of is take urgent leave.
When I went out Yum Cha with Janelle, she told me not to be so heart softened, I should be firm to my bro because we hold the same responsibility to take care of my parents.
Besides that, Janelle told me one thing that caused me totally mute because I didn't even realise it. "Pei, do you find yourself always talk to us about what other people said instead of your own words or thinking?"
It's true.. I always tell my LOVE one about "Daneal said.../ Ah Min said.../ My mum said..." but not my opinion and thinking. I followed what people told me without even thinking twice. If today my social circle is totally different from what I am in now, I think I'll be influenced easily.
That's really scary and risky.. I should try to do something meaningful besides reading story books..
I spoke to darling about this and it alerts him on how "innocent" I am and meaningless my life is.
Thus, I gonna give myself a plan on what to do during my off days and try to occupy myself with some meaningful reading materials or activities..I MUST TRANSFORM!!!

We Got Our "Love Nest"

We finally got our LOVE NEST in Klang Lama and I was so excited after signing the S&P and Loan Agreement.
Darling brought me to the place for launching.. The development has started and there is a show unit open for public. The interior is really nice and facilities like swimming pool, futsal.. are included. Everything looks perfect here but the only thing that I don't like is the name of it. The name is now called "Gembira Residence" instead of G Residence. :S
Darling asked me if we are settling down in Singapore, then are we going to rent out the unit with renovation completed or not. My answer is definitely a NO laaaa... If we are moving back, then only we come out a lump sum for renovation..
The face of happiness is again shown on me because I have achieved another dream that I wished to..

My Unpleasant Flight

There are 2 incidents that happened to me recently that pull my motivation down and demoralized me for reporting for flights.
1. In my Amsterdam flight, this supervisor assigned me a position that worked in business class but he asked me to help in Business Class after I finished the tray distribution in EY. In other word, I am working for both classes, really exhausted... He even pick on the mistakes that I made and told me "Please know your works." The best part is, he told my other colleagues that "Amelie doesn't like to work in Business Class so I ask her to help after the EY service is completed."

2.I was scolded by a "broken wrist" guy in this flight. His face turned black just after take off because I am not "holding his BALLS up" (POH).. He said I looked like a cockroach, acted busy but in fact doing nothing.. After the conversation with him, when I looked into mirror in the toilet, my tears dropped automatically without even enlighten me the sadness I had. I kept myself calm and still mantain my Sweet smile throughout the flight. Till the end of the flight, my chief told me that he was impressed on my reaction and attitude even after I got scolded and hurt by him.

My company paying me so much not only to handle the nasty passangers but also "screw loosen" colleagues. I have to accept that "This is my job".. =p