Wedding Check List

Being relaxing for this few weeks without really worrying the big day is around the corner. Darling even more "worried free" because he is not involved in the planning.

• Banquet Booking - Noble Banquet (Nice & new environment with good food served)
  
• Photographer & Videoman (Filming Art - Good cinematography provider)
  
• Pre Wedding Photo Shooting (BNY Gallery - That's what I am looking for)
  
• Bride's House of the day (My sister's place because it's a good place for the family to gather and a lot of "conveniences" count)
• Honeymoon - Zurich (can't wait to go with darling!!)
  

However, there are still a lot of stuffs in the "pending" list:

1. Banquet Decoration - still can't confirm on the theme and color
   
2. DIY guest book, invitation card, ang pow box... (I hope I can do it myself)
   
3. My sexy wedding dress
   
4. Wedding cake - I prefer to have the design I have and keep a slice and eat it a year later
   
5. Wedding stuffs
6. Slimming, facial care , body care and hair car

I hope I will get a pat on the back and keep me motivate to get the things done. Ya, I want my dream wedding and it involves $$$ but I am trying to look for a better deal to avoid extra expenses. =p

My best fiend is getting married!!

My best friend Janelle is getting married, IN THIS YEAR.
Her MIL had selected the wedding date, approximately October or November this year. Our wedding dates are "crash" to each other. Old people believe that the new married couple are not allowed to attend other wedding & funeral within the 3 months from their wedding date.
It's a pity that she can't be my bridesmaid anymore.. In fact she is very pressured with the wedding planning as it is considered an unplanned event in her 2011 calendar.
Nevertheless, I am still happy that both of us are getting married. Though the "lacking" feeling is still in place but my mind able to lead me to another thinking and blessing for us. "Attendance might be an enlightenment but not crucial, the most important part is We are married to the right guy that we love and love us most!"
"Dear, don't worry about anything. We can plan our wedding together and it will be a different kind of experience instead. Just be prepare to be Mrs Wong!"

I am back to my loved one!!

Canceled my KL trip because darling started his new job today..
Gonna make a big decision soon before the expenses for my wedding come in..
I feel like I am a big girl now; especially after ROM, decision I made always put darling and our family in consideration. I am no longer the small kid that MUST ask permission or suggestions. ;)
This is a big move for darling and I do hope that this is a better move. Because of me, he chose to stay in Singapore. I just hope that he will be happier and adapt to the new environment fast.
Darling, you have my full support and let's work hard!!!

It's coming soon

Ya, Ya... it's coming soon - my big day!!
I traveled around the world and I got my wedding stuffs from different countries. Thinking of getting stuffs in China will be cheaper but the people there really have no ethic and you'll get scolded if you negotiate the price and ended without buying.
I am in Hong Kong now and again being recommended by my other colleague, they asked me to go 金都广场. I made a trip there yesterday after my very draggy 15hrs flight.
I was quite impressed and excited when I stepped into the mall. You can get anything here that is necessary for your big day. You can find small items like door gifts, tradition ceremony use stuffs, accessories, shoes to big item like gown, car renting service, flower bouquet and decoration, photo shooting package and make up package. Everything under one roof, 5 levels building.
I tried to search in Bei Jing and Shang Hai before but I was back to hotel with disappointment. However, I got some of my stuffs yesterday and I was really happy that I met this uncle who is willing to teach me a lot of tradition. He even gave me discount and freebies.
Sometimes in the conversation with people around me, I felt the happiness in my heart are "revealing" on my face.. People will tell me like "You really looks happy and can feel your happiness"; "Who is the lucky man and are you two decided to get married very fast?"
Haha.. I might look like a small sweet girl just started my "puppy love" relationship but in fact we are together for 6 years, coming 7 years. I am happy that although he didn't give me any idea on our wedding preparation but he gave me the full support. Thanks, darling and my mum who helped me in the wedding planning. I love you!!

Gong Hey Fatt Choy

Planning department treats me good this year. The rostering system gave me a London flight with off on eve and 1st day; followed by a HKG-SFO on 2nd day.
This CNY off is really meaningful for me this year because this is the first time we celebrate CNY in our new house and this will be the last "reunion dinner" with them before my customary wedding kicks in this October. I gonna give out ang pow next year =( , like an aunty...
Though there is nothing special planned; but I felt relax and my father kept telling my mum that "I am really happy that the family are together in this CNY".
Can you imagine This is only what our parents want. What they request is not the reputation, the big house, the big car or $$$$, is the reunion of all the family members.
I always feel touched after watching the Petronas CNY advertisement. But the feeling is stronger when you heard it out from your loved one.
I told myself that I'll have reunion dinner with my parents every year. We can have it earlier and it happened in the last 2 years.
Daddy, Mummy, thanks for growing me up and gave me the best you can.
Bro, hope your wishes come true and thanks for willing to share everything with me without any hidden part behind.
I just love my family!!!

米修米修

This feeling has faded in the air but it came back again.. I know it's simply an action after not seeing him for a week. Without any reply after several messages sent drove me crazy and think of "Anything happened to him?"
An oversea call is necessary to find out that he is doing well. "Why no answer?"
A callback from him had calmed me down and tears dropped unknowingly why...
I always have this feeling when we were still staying apart from each other. I thought I am getting braver & stronger in my heart and this emo feeling hardly hit me down.
No No No.. The reason is we are living together and we involve each other in our daily life and practice. I am used to have him by my side and it is really unbearable to leave him for 2 weeks.
I am blessed that he found a new job and he'll be staying in SIN. We are meant to be a pair and we will work hard together for our future.

Summary of 2010

It had been a long time I am not blogging here.. I was quite tight with my roster and always fly off to station like Australia. Most of the time spent on sleep, read and eat..
Let me conclude what had I done/achieved in year 2010 here..

1. Officially became Mrs. Hon on 11Oct102. Moved to my new house in Bayu Puteri and my parents were proud of it
3. Bought our "nest" in KL though the project is going to complete after 3 years
4. Darling found a job in SIN and we are staying together happily under one roof (room will be more appropriate =p)
5. Take up new hobbies (baking and scrap book design)6. Acne problem got better and depression on this matter is no longer in my mind
7. Went sightseeing with Jamie to Vernice and Paris
8. Got a SLR from darling as my birthday gift and tried to learn on photo shooting

9. Tried on photo editing
10. Short gateaway with darling to Hongkong
11. Trip to KL with my besties (though was tiring but fun)

12. "Mutual Acceptance" of my parents and darling

My 2010 is more happening towards the end of it.. I had wasted so much time in trying to take nap before flight, depression and thinking unnecessary nonsense... Though the former problems are still unsolved, but I'll treat all these as a life experience. It might help me to transform to a better person- think positively, only think of the good side and believe in only good things will happen.
You won't believe how these things work:
If I couldn't take a nap before flight, I'll tell myself that "Don't worry, after the flight you will be damn freaking tired and you'll have to sleep for the whole day. Just relax your body now.."
If depression hits me again, I'll try to do something (chatting with my besties, baking cake or scrap book design) to calm myself.
If I am thinking unnecessary nonsense, I'll tell myself "Life is too short, don't think so far away and enjoy the present."
2011, it will be a better, more fruitful and meaningful year for me!!! Just wait and see my updates soon.