Darling, thanks for showering me with your care when things do not go as what we planned. Sorry that I made you worry during your work. As a wife, I should be able to take care of myself without distracting you from your work.
You told me that you understood the situation I was in. You made an assumption to ensure me that your love will not change though there are changes on our wedding. You teached me to be flexible and understanable in the situation where my parents comment came in.
Do you know that when I feel the touch from you, I always think that all the bad stuffs are melted together and disappeared. You always have your way to make me feel better.
The attention from you made me feel that I am your priority in your life.
As you said, you wanna give me a good hubby that really cares about me and our future. No empty promises and fake hopes are given. These are the things I am looking into it, and you knew it. I always believe that GOD is pampering me; he provides me a good family and gives me a good hubby. But why am I so impatient when things go wrong? Why can't I wait for a little while to solve the problem? Am I still a perfectionist that making myself can't breath? Or I am just over worried like my mum?
Regardless what, I will try to make my EQ higher.. You know that I want our wedding to be a simple yet memorable. Thus, I'll take this wedding preparation as a learning experience for us and a big step into the new chapter of our life.
Thanks, darling..
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Thursday, October 14, 2010
Please Address Me As "Mrs. Hon"
I am proud to announce that I am Mrs Hon now.
Though we are going to hold our customary wedding next year, but officially I am Mrs Hon and my status is upgraded to "married" and no longer "single".
We had our ROM on 11Oct10. A lot of people asked "Why not 101010?"
1. A lot of people will register on 101010 and it will turn out to be a group event instead of individual
2. My hubby proposed to me on 11Oct09 and I find it more meaningful if we get married on the same day and it'll be a memorable day for us
I felt I was the happiest bride on my ROM day. I have my family and my closest friend from JB to witness the special moment.. I can feel the happiness around the place and everyone eyes are on me. In fact, I had plenty of ideas for my ROM and it didn't turn out to be what I wished. But, I am really happy and I think "Not to stress over everything and happy with what you have" will make you love the "simple happiness".
Things that I had planned earlier are listed here:
1. I wanna have my ROM in Garden but due to additional cost incurred, I chose to go JPN instead
2. I wished to have a great buffet lunch in Shangri La hotel with my family and friends. It'll be a private function or room for us but in the end my father invited my aunties. I don't really willing to spend that much on them and thus I'd to call it off
3. I had done my survey on what kind of cake I want. I was thinking to cut it during the lunch session. I like romantic and sweet feeling; soft color and simple design will be the best. But, our plan on head is have simple lunch in Oriental Pavilion (where we hope to hold our banquet there), so I think it's not suitable and I don't have "resources" to book and collect for me. This is similar to what I want but the design can be better.. =p
4. The hand bouquet. I want something simple and small. The color of roses I want is light pinkish purple.. Though a lot of people commented that my hand banquet is too small and it'll look nicer with more flowers, but I still like it because I told the florist to tie it this way and this is my own design. I don't like it Round shape because it looks too common for me. Though it's a failure, but I'll design another banquet for my actual day. =p
I like the ribbon and the color of the roses, but not the shape of the bouquet.
5. I had some idea on how to enhance my ring pillow but I couldn't get the material I want, so I gave up the idea..
6. I planned to take more pictures in Putrajaya because the scene there are nice and I am wearing a gown. But again due to time constraint and I don't have a trusted photographer Xiao Pang, so just let it go. In the end the photos shot did not bring out the feeling I want due to angle captured. But I still looked sweet..
7. I thought of having a theme for my ROM; but I didn't wanna trouble my close one and I knew it'll create more problems
8. I'd prepared myself for the vow.. But, darling didn't know where to start (or he didn't prepare for it) and he just kept silent
When I found out that I adjusted myself on what I want when changes/alternative are required, I felt so relax and happy. When things didn't turn out to be what I want, I reminded myself - always look at the other side.. My tolerance had made my parents proud of me, my hubby loves me even more and my friends are happy for me.
There are some pictures to share here..
The "bride of the day" - Miss Amelie
I love this family picture!!
We are holding our hands and entering the next stage of our life together..
My failure hand bouquet..
My best sisters from JB.. Love you two!!
We look so pretty in this picture.. This is full of happiness.
A cute version.. Boon, where are you?
My beloved brother and GF May Jean
My cute daddy.. He looks friendly but he can be very fierce..
My lovely mummy.. Sorry that I made you sad and worry. But, I still love you always..
"Yes, I do."
Ring Exchange
A kiss - Promise to take care of me forever.. No regret..
Two families..
I feel so blessed that we had came to our happy ending.. You are the one that I can rely on, trust and have faith with.. It's another starting point for us and this journey will be longer and harder, let's work together to achieve our dream and I wanna be with you for the rest of my life.
Thanks for your understanding and tolerance during the preparation and ROM day. I love you, my hubby Daneal Hon..
Though we are going to hold our customary wedding next year, but officially I am Mrs Hon and my status is upgraded to "married" and no longer "single".
We had our ROM on 11Oct10. A lot of people asked "Why not 101010?"
1. A lot of people will register on 101010 and it will turn out to be a group event instead of individual
2. My hubby proposed to me on 11Oct09 and I find it more meaningful if we get married on the same day and it'll be a memorable day for us
I felt I was the happiest bride on my ROM day. I have my family and my closest friend from JB to witness the special moment.. I can feel the happiness around the place and everyone eyes are on me. In fact, I had plenty of ideas for my ROM and it didn't turn out to be what I wished. But, I am really happy and I think "Not to stress over everything and happy with what you have" will make you love the "simple happiness".
Things that I had planned earlier are listed here:
1. I wanna have my ROM in Garden but due to additional cost incurred, I chose to go JPN instead
2. I wished to have a great buffet lunch in Shangri La hotel with my family and friends. It'll be a private function or room for us but in the end my father invited my aunties. I don't really willing to spend that much on them and thus I'd to call it off
3. I had done my survey on what kind of cake I want. I was thinking to cut it during the lunch session. I like romantic and sweet feeling; soft color and simple design will be the best. But, our plan on head is have simple lunch in Oriental Pavilion (where we hope to hold our banquet there), so I think it's not suitable and I don't have "resources" to book and collect for me. This is similar to what I want but the design can be better.. =p
4. The hand bouquet. I want something simple and small. The color of roses I want is light pinkish purple.. Though a lot of people commented that my hand banquet is too small and it'll look nicer with more flowers, but I still like it because I told the florist to tie it this way and this is my own design. I don't like it Round shape because it looks too common for me. Though it's a failure, but I'll design another banquet for my actual day. =p
I like the ribbon and the color of the roses, but not the shape of the bouquet.
5. I had some idea on how to enhance my ring pillow but I couldn't get the material I want, so I gave up the idea..6. I planned to take more pictures in Putrajaya because the scene there are nice and I am wearing a gown. But again due to time constraint and I don't have a trusted photographer Xiao Pang, so just let it go. In the end the photos shot did not bring out the feeling I want due to angle captured. But I still looked sweet..
7. I thought of having a theme for my ROM; but I didn't wanna trouble my close one and I knew it'll create more problems
8. I'd prepared myself for the vow.. But, darling didn't know where to start (or he didn't prepare for it) and he just kept silent
When I found out that I adjusted myself on what I want when changes/alternative are required, I felt so relax and happy. When things didn't turn out to be what I want, I reminded myself - always look at the other side.. My tolerance had made my parents proud of me, my hubby loves me even more and my friends are happy for me.
There are some pictures to share here..
The "bride of the day" - Miss Amelie
I love this family picture!!
We are holding our hands and entering the next stage of our life together..
My failure hand bouquet..
My best sisters from JB.. Love you two!!
We look so pretty in this picture.. This is full of happiness.
A cute version.. Boon, where are you?
My beloved brother and GF May Jean
My cute daddy.. He looks friendly but he can be very fierce..
My lovely mummy.. Sorry that I made you sad and worry. But, I still love you always..
"Yes, I do."
Ring Exchange
A kiss - Promise to take care of me forever.. No regret..
Two families..
I feel so blessed that we had came to our happy ending.. You are the one that I can rely on, trust and have faith with.. It's another starting point for us and this journey will be longer and harder, let's work together to achieve our dream and I wanna be with you for the rest of my life.Thanks for your understanding and tolerance during the preparation and ROM day. I love you, my hubby Daneal Hon..
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
I Don't Like
I don't like to be manipulated by people
I don't like you to make decision without showing respect to me...
I don't like you to demand a lot of things just to show people how fortunate you are...
I don't like acting in front of you all on my big day...
I don't like you pretend nothing especially when you changed whatever I'd planned earlier...
I don't like you to give a lot of ideas and suggestions after the decision made...
I don't like you to make decision without showing respect to me...
I don't like you to demand a lot of things just to show people how fortunate you are...
I don't like acting in front of you all on my big day...
I don't like you pretend nothing especially when you changed whatever I'd planned earlier...
I don't like you to give a lot of ideas and suggestions after the decision made...
Friday, October 1, 2010
Video Calling with My Mummy
Yesterday morning, I was having a 2hrs video call with my mum. We talked a lot over everything. It was a fun one.
There are few messages sent to guide her how to get herself to log in to MSN. However, when I was calling her, she didn't answer the call. The reply from her is "I couldn't find any ANSWER button on the screen!"
Cute mummy, you may try on ACCEPT instead. I am glad that my mum could chat with me now though I am away.
Mum, you make me proud of you. You make the effort to learn how to use a laptop, get into internet and now video calling! Love ya..
There are few messages sent to guide her how to get herself to log in to MSN. However, when I was calling her, she didn't answer the call. The reply from her is "I couldn't find any ANSWER button on the screen!"
Cute mummy, you may try on ACCEPT instead. I am glad that my mum could chat with me now though I am away.
Mum, you make me proud of you. You make the effort to learn how to use a laptop, get into internet and now video calling! Love ya..
...
I can't give a better title for this blog because it's kinda way for me to tell u the thoughts I had recently:
1. Being unable to deliver what people expected is really making someone feel useless and sad about it
2. Things don't always come in a perfect way; if there are some challenges and you overcome it, you'll find it more meaningful
3. You would prefer to have everything in the world but there are price to pay for it
4. People will see the good/ bright side of you, who cares about the other side? Only the close one who will lend you their shoulder
5. Human character will not change in a day, 7 days or even 365 days. Just accept who they are and change your perception instead
6. Some people you might know her for less than 3 months, but you find you are comfortable to tell her what you think. Is it TRUE friendship?
7. Entering another stage of life might be excited or nervous
8. Just give yourself a break of not being a perfectionist for everything. You are actually murdering yourself unknowingly by stressing yourself
9. Different people will think differently on you. Just accept it
10. Being able to tell your love one what you are thinking is a good gift from GOD
11. Friendship = Competitive Game?!
12. Parents are always the best person to share your secret with
13. Feeling small in your world is not helping you; thus you must stand up for yourself
14. Your mum will know what you are thinking and doing. They gave birth to you and they experienced everything that you are going through now
15. Being demanding is not cute and does not prove anything after all. In fact, it shows how UGLY or intolerable you are
16. People find excuses to make you feel better; just accept it because at least they make an effort
17. How to be a good persuader for your love one?
18. Sound impatiently while talking to others is unacceptable
19. I always believe the existence of KARMA. Don't do something that might hurt someone, you'll get it back one day in DOUBLE
20. Some people just wanna be the winning side, so be it... in the end, they will know that what they lose is more than what they win
1. Being unable to deliver what people expected is really making someone feel useless and sad about it
2. Things don't always come in a perfect way; if there are some challenges and you overcome it, you'll find it more meaningful
3. You would prefer to have everything in the world but there are price to pay for it
4. People will see the good/ bright side of you, who cares about the other side? Only the close one who will lend you their shoulder
5. Human character will not change in a day, 7 days or even 365 days. Just accept who they are and change your perception instead
6. Some people you might know her for less than 3 months, but you find you are comfortable to tell her what you think. Is it TRUE friendship?
7. Entering another stage of life might be excited or nervous
8. Just give yourself a break of not being a perfectionist for everything. You are actually murdering yourself unknowingly by stressing yourself
9. Different people will think differently on you. Just accept it
10. Being able to tell your love one what you are thinking is a good gift from GOD
11. Friendship = Competitive Game?!
12. Parents are always the best person to share your secret with
13. Feeling small in your world is not helping you; thus you must stand up for yourself
14. Your mum will know what you are thinking and doing. They gave birth to you and they experienced everything that you are going through now
15. Being demanding is not cute and does not prove anything after all. In fact, it shows how UGLY or intolerable you are
16. People find excuses to make you feel better; just accept it because at least they make an effort
17. How to be a good persuader for your love one?
18. Sound impatiently while talking to others is unacceptable
19. I always believe the existence of KARMA. Don't do something that might hurt someone, you'll get it back one day in DOUBLE
20. Some people just wanna be the winning side, so be it... in the end, they will know that what they lose is more than what they win
Sunday, September 12, 2010
I Got My ROM Gown
Finally I got my ROM gown from BNY.. I couldn't show the picture here because the lady didn't allow me to take pictures. =(
It was a pure white V design gown with some "diamond" accessories on the shoulders and chest.
I tried the other tube dress gown (I prefer tube dress gown) but it looked even more simple than this piece.
I'd started to prepare for my big day now and my ROM is coming soon. Roster is coming out later and hope I can get my Saturday and Sunday off for our girl's trip to go on smoothly.
I called Oriental Pavillion that day for our banquet reservation. The big hall was booked by the other couple and the only available one is the small hall of the capacity of 18tables only.
My mum suggested to hold the banquet on another day; darling thought of change our big day to another date that is available. However, I prefer to have it on the same day and same date, 30/10/2011.
Darling was worried that I am still emphasizing on the wedding instead of our marriage. Darling, don't worry.. this is the excitement I have during wedding planning and I always foresee how our marriage life will be.
On-going tasks to be completed:
11Oct2010: our ROM and officially I gonna be "Mrs. Hon" on that day
Mar2011: Pre Wedding photo shooting
Jul2011: Our honeymoon
30Oct2011: Our big day
I'll update more about the wedding planning on my later posts.
It was a pure white V design gown with some "diamond" accessories on the shoulders and chest.
I tried the other tube dress gown (I prefer tube dress gown) but it looked even more simple than this piece.
I'd started to prepare for my big day now and my ROM is coming soon. Roster is coming out later and hope I can get my Saturday and Sunday off for our girl's trip to go on smoothly.
I called Oriental Pavillion that day for our banquet reservation. The big hall was booked by the other couple and the only available one is the small hall of the capacity of 18tables only.
My mum suggested to hold the banquet on another day; darling thought of change our big day to another date that is available. However, I prefer to have it on the same day and same date, 30/10/2011.
Darling was worried that I am still emphasizing on the wedding instead of our marriage. Darling, don't worry.. this is the excitement I have during wedding planning and I always foresee how our marriage life will be.
On-going tasks to be completed:
11Oct2010: our ROM and officially I gonna be "Mrs. Hon" on that day
Mar2011: Pre Wedding photo shooting
Jul2011: Our honeymoon
30Oct2011: Our big day
I'll update more about the wedding planning on my later posts.
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
EMO Feeling
Today, I woke up with a bad headache..The emo feeling is coming back again.
Darling said my menses is coming soon.. I'd waited for it a week ago and it was delayed..
That night, my tears dropped when knowing my parents quarreled badly.. Luckily you were beside me and comforted me by reminding me that "At least I am with you this time and not apart from each other. You are no longer alone when you are sad or unhappy."
These few nites, I couldn't sleep well and still alert even it's already 12am. You held my hand, touching my hair gently and hugged me tight in your arm. You knew this is what I want now..
I hope the emo feeling will go away and my menses please visit me fast. I wanna plan for my ROM with happy feeling..
Darling said my menses is coming soon.. I'd waited for it a week ago and it was delayed..
That night, my tears dropped when knowing my parents quarreled badly.. Luckily you were beside me and comforted me by reminding me that "At least I am with you this time and not apart from each other. You are no longer alone when you are sad or unhappy."
These few nites, I couldn't sleep well and still alert even it's already 12am. You held my hand, touching my hair gently and hugged me tight in your arm. You knew this is what I want now..
I hope the emo feeling will go away and my menses please visit me fast. I wanna plan for my ROM with happy feeling..
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