Thursday, October 14, 2010

Please Address Me As "Mrs. Hon"

I am proud to announce that I am Mrs Hon now.
Though we are going to hold our customary wedding next year, but officially I am Mrs Hon and my status is upgraded to "married" and no longer "single".
We had our ROM on 11Oct10. A lot of people asked "Why not 101010?"
1. A lot of people will register on 101010 and it will turn out to be a group event instead of individual
2. My hubby proposed to me on 11Oct09 and I find it more meaningful if we get married on the same day and it'll be a memorable day for us
I felt I was the happiest bride on my ROM day. I have my family and my closest friend from JB to witness the special moment.. I can feel the happiness around the place and everyone eyes are on me. In fact, I had plenty of ideas for my ROM and it didn't turn out to be what I wished. But, I am really happy and I think "Not to stress over everything and happy with what you have" will make you love the "simple happiness".
Things that I had planned earlier are listed here:
1. I wanna have my ROM in Garden but due to additional cost incurred, I chose to go JPN instead
2. I wished to have a great buffet lunch in Shangri La hotel with my family and friends. It'll be a private function or room for us but in the end my father invited my aunties. I don't really willing to spend that much on them and thus I'd to call it off
3. I had done my survey on what kind of cake I want. I was thinking to cut it during the lunch session. I like romantic and sweet feeling; soft color and simple design will be the best. But, our plan on head is have simple lunch in Oriental Pavilion (where we hope to hold our banquet there), so I think it's not suitable and I don't have "resources" to book and collect for me. This is similar to what I want but the design can be better.. =p


4. The hand bouquet. I want something simple and small. The color of roses I want is light pinkish purple.. Though a lot of people commented that my hand banquet is too small and it'll look nicer with more flowers, but I still like it because I told the florist to tie it this way and this is my own design. I don't like it Round shape because it looks too common for me. Though it's a failure, but I'll design another banquet for my actual day. =p
I like the ribbon and the color of the roses, but not the shape of the bouquet.

5. I had some idea on how to enhance my ring pillow but I couldn't get the material I want, so I gave up the idea..
6. I planned to take more pictures in Putrajaya because the scene there are nice and I am wearing a gown. But again due to time constraint and I don't have a trusted photographer Xiao Pang, so just let it go. In the end the photos shot did not bring out the feeling I want due to angle captured. But I still looked sweet..
7. I thought of having a theme for my ROM; but I didn't wanna trouble my close one and I knew it'll create more problems
8. I'd prepared myself for the vow.. But, darling didn't know where to start (or he didn't prepare for it) and he just kept silent

When I found out that I adjusted myself on what I want when changes/alternative are required, I felt so relax and happy. When things didn't turn out to be what I want, I reminded myself - always look at the other side.. My tolerance had made my parents proud of me, my hubby loves me even more and my friends are happy for me.
There are some pictures to share here..
The "bride of the day" - Miss Amelie


I love this family picture!!



We are holding our hands and entering the next stage of our life together..


My failure hand bouquet..





My best sisters from JB.. Love you two!!


We look so pretty in this picture.. This is full of happiness.


A cute version.. Boon, where are you?


My beloved brother and GF May Jean




My cute daddy.. He looks friendly but he can be very fierce..


My lovely mummy.. Sorry that I made you sad and worry. But, I still love you always..



"Yes, I do."


Ring Exchange


A kiss - Promise to take care of me forever.. No regret..



Two families..














I feel so blessed that we had came to our happy ending.. You are the one that I can rely on, trust and have faith with.. It's another starting point for us and this journey will be longer and harder, let's work together to achieve our dream and I wanna be with you for the rest of my life.
Thanks for your understanding and tolerance during the preparation and ROM day. I love you, my hubby Daneal Hon..

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